If the history of Islam be viewed and analyzed from an objective point of view, then one would ultimately reach the conclusion that women have a great role and status in Islam and throughout the Islam history they have made their contributions and for those contribution they have been revered and appreciated.
Like renowned and great men of Islam there are Muslim women as well who have left their mark on Islam history and who stand as a role model for Muslim women to follow and seek guidance from.
The lines below give five great women of Islam, which must be the role model of every Muslim women of today and the lesson, which Muslim women must learn from their lives.
Thirdly, all the wives of the Holy Prophet Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him with the exception of Sayyidah Ayesha Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha were of advanced age and thus could neither share the feelings of the younger generation nor could they properly appreciate their point of view. The difference of age
always stood as a barrier between them and the ladies of the younger ages. The only lady with whom young women could frankly enter into conversation and discuss problems without any reserve could be none but Sayyidah Ayesha Radi ALLAHu
Ta'ala Anha. Thus, the marriage of the Holy Prophet Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him with Sayyidah Ayesha Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha at an age when she was at the threshold of puberty was a great necessity, as it was through her that
instructions could successfully be imparted to the young ladies who had newly entered the fold of Islam.
For rich Muslim women there can be no greater role model than Hazrat Khadijah (RA). She was the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and the richest of them all. She inherited a great fortune from her father after his passing away, however, the use of that fortune is what Muslim women need to learn from.
People here always you know taunt us saying that Prophet Muhammed (P.B.U.H) had married Hazrat Aisha at the age of 9 and had husband and wife relation.Saying that this is Molestation.Please please give me a reason from Quran and
Sunnah to describe them why he married at an earlier age.I mean why it was O.K.
Despite her being rich, she was never proud of it, rather she always fed the poor, gave them clothes and assisted her family with regards to their financial needs. Regarding her, Prophet (PBUH) said:
“The best of world’s women is Mary (in her lifetime), and the best of world’s women is Khadijah (in her lifetime).” (Bukhari)
Hazrat Khadijah (RA) was not known for a pious business woman only, rather her role as a supporting wife and a true Muslim is also evident from her life.
She was the one who supported and encouraged Prophet (PBUH) when revelation came to Him for the first time.
She was distinguished for her virtues - piety learning, wisdom, simplicity, generosity and the care with which she safeguarded and faithfully reported the religious sermons of the Holy Prophet (SAWW). She bravely criticized the thing that she thought against Islam. Her simplicity and modesty serve as a guiding light to all the Muslim ladies of the world. There were hardly three successive days during the life time of her husband (SAWW), when Hazrat Ayesha
(RA) had a full meal. The night when the Holy Prophet (SAWW) breathed his last she had no light to lighten her lamp, nor anything to eat.
Moreover, when Prophet (PBUH) started preaching Islam, she stood by Him and supported Him in every regard possible.
The second Muslim women that should stand as a role model for all the Muslim women is the daughter of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) - Fatimah (RA).
She is an epitome of virtue, piety, charity, humility and sacrifice in all her roles, whether it is the role of the daughter of Prophet of Islam, the role of wife of Ali (RA) or the role of mother of Hazrat Hassan and
Hazrat Ayesha (RA) was the beloved daughter of Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddique (RA). She was born ion Makkah. Her parents brought her up in conformity with the true spirit of Islam. She was very young when she got married to the Holy Prophet (SAWW). She proved herself to be extremely faithful, intelligent and a loving wife.
In all her roles, there is purity, sincerity, dedication and commitment.
In addition to what she did in her roles, she received great respect and stature from others in return. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) would stand up from the bed and give her His place whenever she came into the room.
Sayyidah Ayesha Siddiqah Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha was the third lady to enter the house of the Beloved Habeeb Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him as his wife, and she was the only virgin in the consorts of purity of the Holy Prophet’s Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him house. She was of a tender age when she was married to Allah’s Apostle Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him.
Moreover, He would also lay His shawl at the place where she were to sit. Regarding her, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:
“Fatimah is a part of me, and he who makes her angry, makes me angry.” (Bukhari)
Therefore, if a Muslim woman is looking for a role model who lived her life in modesty and made the best of it whilst staying within her means, then the life of Hazrat Fatimah (RA) is what she should be studying.
Hazrat Aisha (RA) was the wife of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and the daughter of Hazrat AbuBakr (RA).
She is one of the most renowned Mothers of Muslims primarily because of the fact that a vast majority of Hadiths of Prophet (PBUH) are narrated by her and due to her thorough understanding of the Holy Quran and religion
The claim that Aisha, the wife of the prophet of Islam, was eighteen years old, two years after her marriage and a year before the consummation of it, is confirmed by the fact that her elder sister, Asma, who was ten years older, died at the exact age of hundred. She died in the year seventy-two Hijrah. This establishes her age at the time of migration to Madinah (Hijrah) as twenty-eight and that of Aisha as eighteen. Islam and the personalities
associated with it became well known when Islam started dominating the political scene of the Arabian Peninsula. This only happened after the Hijrah. Prior to it, information was sketchy and unreliable. The only narrator who mentions her age as six at the time of marriage is the one
whose memory became unreliable when he reported this information.
Once a Companion asked Prophet (PBUH):
“O Allah’s Messenger! Who amongst all the people is the dearest to you?”
The Companion asked:
“Out of the men?”
“Her father.” (Tirmidhi)
Hazrat Aisha (RA) had such a thorough understanding of religion and intellect that after the passing away of Prophet (PBUH) different Companions would go to her for consultation in religious matters and ask her about what either Prophet (PBUH) had said about such and such matter or what her say on a particular matter was, thus, her intellect and scholastic abilities are a role model for women who think that it is a man’s job to know about religion and gain religious knowledge.
The best thing with Islam is that it appreciates everything good whether it is after its arrival or before it was proclaimed to the world.
In Islam, the earlier Prophets are accepted as Prophets of Allah and thus, they and everyone else associated with them is also revered and respected, Hazrat Maryam (RA) - the mother of Hazrat Isa (RA) is one of them.
Moreover, this marriage struck at the root of a wrong notion that had firmly taken hold of the minds of the people that it was contrary to religious ethics to marry the daughter of a man whom one declared to be one’s brother
. The Messenger of Allah Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him, with the help of his personal example, showed to the people that there is a great difference between a brother-in-faith and the brother in relation to blood. The marriage
, which is forbidden in Islam, is with the daughter of the brother in blood and not with the daughter of the brother-in-faith.
For Muslim women who think that life is tough for them or they cannot go through the turmoil that Allah has given them should look at the history of Hazrat Maryam (RA). Who had to deliver a child all by herself and who later on had to face the accusations and blaming of the people.
This young age was in fact very opportune for marriage as it has been clearly shown in the researches of psychoanalysts that much of the emotional of a mature person and most of those seemingly unaccountable leanings, tastes and tendencies comprised in the term idiosyncrasies can be traced to the experience of his or her highly formative age of either later childhood or early adolescence.
Despite all the vileness of the people and the trouble she had to face, she remained resolute and her faith on Allah did not flinch a little. By reading the Holy Quran, we can easily judge her personality.
Firstly, it cemented the ties between Sayyiduna Rasoolullah Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him and his devoted friend Sayyiduna Abu Bakr Siddique Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha who always stood by him in hour of trial and who sacrificed his all for the cause of Islam.
Quran says about her in the following way:
“And [the example of] Mary, the daughter of Imran, who guarded her chastity, so We blew into [her garment] through Our angel, and she believed in the words of her Lord and His scriptures and was of the devoutly obedient.” (66:12)
Therefore, Muslim women who are going through tough time need to take a leaf out of the life of Maryam (RA) and see that how she faced all of it alone and remained patient and faithful to Allah Almighty.
Sayyidah Ayesha Radi ALLAHu Ta'ala Anha not only possessed great knowledge but also took an active part in education and social reform. As a teacher she had a clear and persuasive manner of speech and her power of oratory has been described in
superlative terms. Men and women came from far and wide to benefit from her knowledge.
Another women before Islam who is respected and given stature and grandeur in Islam is the wife of Pharaoh - Hazrat Asiya (RA). The reason for her greater stature in Islam is the fact that despite being the wife of perhaps the greatest of tyrants and non-believers the world has ever seen, she still remained faithful and believed in Allah.
The life of Hazrat Aisha (Radhiyallahu-Anha) is proof that a woman can be far more learned than men and that she can be the teacher of scholars and experts. Her life is also proof that the same woman can be totally feminine and be a source of pleasure, joy and comfort to her husband.
In spite of all her wealth and the relationship with the tyrant husband, she realized and accepted truth and stood for it. Allah Almighty says about her in Quran in the following way:
“And Allah has set forth an example for those who believe, the wife of Pharaoh, when she said: “My Lord! Build for me a home with You in Paradise, and save me from Pharaoh and his work, and save me from the people who are Zalimun (polytheists, wrong-doers and disbelievers in Allah).” (66:11)
Therefore, women who find it hard to stick to their belief and practice Islam either because of the troubles they face from their husband or because of any other worldly difficulty, they should study the life of Hazrat Asiya (RA) and see how she remained steadfast despite all the hardships and troubles she had to face from her husband.
Marriage to the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam) did not change her playful ways. Her young friends came to visit her regularly in her own apartment. Hazrat Aisha (Radhiyallahu-Anha) had her life to the Prophet (Sallallahu-Alayhi-Wasallam).
In a nutshell, the aforementioned are just four examples from the history of women in Islam. By looking at the life of Hazrat Khadijah (RA) Muslim women with wealth can take inspiration, by looking at Hazrat Fatima (RA) Muslim women with modest means can take inspiration, by looking at the life of Hazrat Aisha (RA) Muslim women can get inspiration to live life in an Islamic way and develop interest in knowing Quran and hadith, by looking at life of Hazrat Maryam (RA) Muslim women facing hardships in life can take guidance and by taking the life of Hazrat Asiya (RA) as an example, Muslim women can find inspiration to stick with truth and righteousness no matter how unfavorable the odds are in any phase of life.